Saturday, July 28, 2012

long time...

At times I wonder, why a blog for me? This post is literally after an year... Do I call myself a writer? Or  is blog a vent-out for me? Neither... It is just that I need to get into my writing "mood" to write! ;)

Anyway, I was just feeling a form and had a few tricky questions (about me, yes!), answers o which actually served more of an introspection... Thus, thought of posting them... Watch out next few posts!

Friday, August 26, 2011

Rotary Peace Fellow

This morning, I received an email which carried this link: http://cgi.unc.edu/top/staff-blog/2011?q=darshan&x=0&y=0

If you've already opened it, let me clarify, I do not send it to blow my own trumpet. It's just that the article touched my heart, not cuz it was written bout me, but cuz it came from someone who I considered real close. Some one who had been with me through out the process that she writes about, rather it was her patience and her care that nurtured my passion to do what I wanted. She stood besides me, not only me, but every peace fellow through their two years, and then as a continuous locus of support. Rotary peace fellowship is an amazing program, but what makes it incredible is the extra support and care that the Rotary family renders. It is an opportunity for dreams to manifest in reality, which otherwise might have disappeared in thin air.

Let me not forget the peace fellows, the school and the cohort. All that she writes about, if I may say so, can happen only at UNC. The patience with which school endured my tantrums, the love with which my friends stood besides me, the care that my mentors and faculty showed, the affection of my host parents, the list can go on...

I never could pen my thoughts or after reactions of the peace fellows program. How could I? It seems impossible to capture all those emotions, all those experiences, everything in black and white. But, this link is a sufficient trigger to remind me how every one copied on this email has been a source of change in my life.

I'd not say thanks, I'd rather say, "Rotary Peace Fellows" let's rock it! :)

Love, Darshan

Thursday, May 12, 2011

Celeb social work...


(the topic was given as a prelude to an interview... I had to express what I feel on that. With the guidance of Dr. Sud, here is what came out...)

Topic: "Celebrities, HNWIs and corporates play a powerful role in the Indian context as role models and influencers. How can these stakeholders leverage the power of ‘focus’ and ‘collaboration’, and use their ‘voice’ to generate widespread social change in India?"

Scenario I: The winning of World Cup tournament brought this country together like never before, Sachin being the uniting factor beyond any caste, creed and religion.

Scenario II: When the who’s who of Indian panorama showed up at Anna Hazare’s fast recently, did they give more credibility to the event or were seeking to get some of that credibility rub on to them? How can we perceive Baba Ramdev's proactive participation, when Anna had publicly snubbed him?

The above two, drawn from a plethora of incidences happening across India show two sides of the coin… In one, Sachin, the youth icon, unites this country across the borders; while in the other, a common man becomes a celebrity and every other celebrity is over shadowed.

Widespread social "change" cannot come through tokenism. All bollywood stars claim to be associated with some NGO or the other in purchase of credibility as 'sensitive' creatures. Even if some of them are 'genuine' they are rarely seen to use their 'star power'. They have their own limitations. Against that, bollywood has also seen silent players like Amrish Puri, whose social actions were never brought to media, but delivered sustainable change at grassroots.

The Nilekanis’, the Jindals’, the Tatas’ and hundreds of HNWIs have been quietly working for decades without making any noise. And this is what social change takes - quiet, persistent, honest ground level work. Social change requires focus and long-term commitment, not just a day spent outside Gateway of India to get some sound bites, courtesy hungry media. This was proved when Amitabh’s foray into politics completely stumbled in it’s first innings irrespective of his undisputed position in bollywood. They can attract the commoner's attention in public places, but it is about the right use of the generated hype, which can manifest itself in social change through persistent efforts of organizations associated to the celebs.

The above mentioned are facts, but it is also a fact that India is a country where celebrities are worshipped. A temple of Sachin and Amitabh, hailing of Sathya Sai Baba as God, looking at Amir Khan as savior of masses are not new to India. And here lies the crux… Social change is about mass movements that cannot happen with exclusion of some. It is about bridging the gap across the spectrum, irrespective of one’s motivations.

The conclusion for me being, it is about the intermediaries between the celebrities, the HNWIs and the social change medium, that is organizations like Innovaid and the ones working directly at grass roots. The onus lays in their hands; i) by guiding the course of celebrities in right direction; ii) for leveraging the ‘celebrity’ status of the who’s who in manifesting social change, through the right use of  ‘sound bites’, ‘public appearances,’ and; iii) the factor that makes them a celebrity, the collaboration of masses under their influence.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Love, Hate & Life...

"But then, it has become a kind of obsession, almost like a one-sided love affair with a quirky beloved. Perhaps I am just not used to leaving troublesome relationships midway!"

Just read this in an email from someone... It weaved in three threads that I was trying to think about, surely love, hate and life, all together bound by "trust" to form "relations." A weird equation, ain't it? Irony in itself... 


I am confused, I find myself anxious. It is difficult to understand the true meanings of these words... Let me check the dictionary!

Love =
a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection [like]...
Hate =  to dislike intensely or passionately...
Trust = reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence...

And, while I am looking up trust, I find a kind of answer to my question, of why am I trying to write this post... Because, trust is also defined as: confident expectation of something; hope.. HOPE! A word that banged outta movie Shawshank Redemption.

If I recall most of my discussions through life, I hear people speaking of hope. In hope of something or everything. In hope of gaining or loosing. In hope living or dying... One or another, but hope! And the moment the hope goes missing, it is like a Dementor's kiss... Blank, gone, oblivious to life!


Why am I writing all this? In last few days, I found myself struggling to balance the tricky triangle of love, hate and relations! The experiences that define my expectations have led me down at times, and exceeded my assumption at other. But, there's no sure pattern, neither is there a pre-determined sequence of actions. And through all of this, I have been sticking with a bare minimum thread of hope, hoping my own negative thoughts will not impact the bets of my life, hoping I can trust myself and others, hoping ti will turn out the way we imagine it together! 


hope... I hope...

 

Friday, June 11, 2010

Development Redefined

The simplest definition of development... USAID

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Hangover II...

So, why was my blog titled "I'm not drunk.." Cos, that's what every drunk person says! And, its not a hear-say thing, cos I experienced it the other day. So, as you read bout the evening while it was happening, this is the aftermath...

So, yes, I had to run to check out where everyone was. While I figured it out, it was 2:00 a.m., closure time. By the way, why am I trying to describe it... Have you seen the movie, "The Hangover"? Exactly that's what happened in a couple of hours... The only thing was, we were fortunate enough that no one woke up with wrist bands from a hospital. In stead, all four of them woke up with the bar bands. I wish the details were good enough to be disclosed, but alas, all's well that ends well!

I'm back in Chapel Hill with memories that will be ingrained for ever. Now, it is going to be a busy time to graduation... Wish me the best!

Sunday, April 4, 2010

I am not drunk..

Madhushala.. One of my favorite Hindi prose! Sounds melodious.. But in reality, the experience does not turn out to be as rhythemic!

On my birthday weekend, hanging out with friends. It's been one of the best vacations till now. Till this night.. Nothing wrong here too.. Just a slight change, instead o friends, I'm baby sitting four kids. Everyone in his own world, some trance heaven I don't know about. Possibly I've not yet been so pure to be permitted in the heaven...

As usual, I'm puzzled. What is it tat makes someone drink so much so tat they forget their own existence, the reality. I might understand it if someone's in utmost pain; but wat bout fit n fine individuals? I'm sitting here, staring t the crowd around.. Almost everyone seems drunk. Guys hunting for gals, gals hunting for guys.. To be politically correct, at times guys jining for guys and gals hunting for gals too. Why, didn't a guy just asked me if I was alone n needed company? Hey, before u misunderstand me, let me clarify. I'm not judging anyone here. Everyone has their own choices.. No issues. My issue is with the drunken dependency and the acts that take place under the influence, which u wake up to regret.

This is juts the stream of thought that is flowing across while I'm sitting here.. Seems I need to get back to baby sitting, or possibly walking; before it creates any trouble. Will come back on this for sure...